"Gracefully Grounded"
- Cheryl A.S. Hurley
- 13 hours ago
- 2 min read

There are some lessons in life that aren’t learned in the spotlight—but in the shadows, when your heart is tender, and your peace feels like it’s hanging on by a thread.
We all have relationships—be it family, friendships, or partnerships—that test our boundaries, our patience, and sometimes, even our sense of worth. They can catch us off guard, making us question, “Is it me?” But the truth is this: maintaining your peace isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being anchored.
You see, there is strength in knowing who you are, and even greater power in appreciating who you are becoming. That’s not pride—it’s purpose. It’s the quiet confidence that reminds you: I’m not everyone’s assignment, and that’s okay. It’s the inner wisdom that whispers: Just because I love you, doesn’t mean I have to lose myself trying to prove it.
Here’s what I’ve learned through my own soul-stretching seasons:
🪡 When your identity is rooted in God and not in approval,
you stop shrinking to fit into places that are too small for
your calling.
🪡 When you appreciate the fabric of your being—woven
with experiences,
healing, and hope—you stop apologizing for needing
space, rest, or clarity.
🪡 And when your peace becomes non-negotiable, so does
your focus.
That’s not being selfish—it’s being faithful. Faithful to your journey. Faithful to your growth. Faithful to the purposeful living you’ve worked hard to walk in.
So, if you’re facing a relationship that rattles your spirit or shakes your clarity, don’t rush to fix what you didn’t break. Instead: consider these 3 Soul Reminders to hold fast to:
You’re allowed to love people and still create boundaries. Peace isn’t passive—it’s protective.
You are not responsible for how others receive your healing. Keep growing anyway.
Your focus is sacred. Don’t let guilt be the reason you lose sight of the vision God gave you.
You are not made of scraps or leftovers. You are divine fabric—stitched with purpose, layered in grace, and hemmed in strength.
Breathe in this truth: I am worthy of peace, focus, and forward movement. I don’t need chaos to prove my loyalty.
Sis, stay focused. Stay tender. Stay true.
And never forget: the more you appreciate who you are, the less you’ll tolerate what dims your light.
Soul Thread Affirmation:
"I honor my peace, protect my focus, and celebrate who I am—flawed, yet fearfully and wonderfully made."
With Grace and Purpose,
Cheryl A.S. Hurley
"Living unapologetically in purpose."
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Powerful and soooo true. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and confirming my beliefs in this season. Love and respect