How Can You Rise Above the Shadows of Toxicity and Still Shine?

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There is something undeniably powerful about choosing to shine when you’ve been surrounded by the shadows of toxic words, controlling spirits, or slanderous actions. When people seek to tear down what God is building in you, remember this: you were never meant to stay hidden—you were created to rise and reflect His glory.

You Were Born to Shine—Not Shrink

When others demean or attempt to control you, the enemy would love for you to internalize their actions and question your worth. But know this: your value does not decrease based on someone else's inability to see your light.

Every time you choose to show up authentically—in truth, in love, in purpose—you shine. You don’t have to explain your light, apologize for it, or shrink to make others comfortable. You are not too much. You are not too loud. You are not too kind. You are not too strong. You are divinely equipped.

Even Jesus was misunderstood, slandered, and betrayed—yet He never stopped healing, loving, or fulfilling His mission. Stay rooted in that same courage.

Keep Your Heart Soft, Your Boundaries Strong

It takes real strength to respond with grace when your spirit is under attack. But grace doesn’t mean passivity. It means knowing who you are and refusing to stoop to the level of negativity.

Protecting your peace doesn’t make you weak—it makes you wise. Set boundaries, speak truth when needed, and give yourself permission to step away from toxic spaces without guilt.

Let God be your defender. Psalm 37:6 declares, “He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn…” You don’t need to chase down every lie. Trust God to reveal the truth in His timing.

Rise Higher, Shine Brighter

The greatest act of resistance to toxicity is joy. Peace. Purpose. The enemy loses every time you choose to rise with integrity and a heart that still believes in goodness.

Don’t match energy—elevate it. Don’t stop loving—just love from a healed place. And when you get weary, remember: you are still here, still standing, and still shining.

Your Shine Steps: 3 Powerful Actions to Take

When you’re walking through seasons of challenge, it helps to have simple, soul-nourishing practices that remind you of who you are and Whose you are. These Shine Steps are gentle but powerful ways to stay grounded in truth, protect your peace, and keep your light burning bright—no matter what.

Write a Soul Reminder: Each morning, write one sentence that reminds you of your worth. Speak it aloud. Let it set the tone for your day.
Create a “Peace Boundary”: Identify one area where you’ve felt drained or disrespected. Choose a loving but firm boundary to protect your peace—without explanation or guilt.
Bless and Release: Say a quiet prayer for someone who has hurt you. Not to excuse their behavior, but to free your heart from carrying their offense.

So, no matter what shadows surround you, don’t let them convince you to dim your light. You are still here, still rising, and still shining with divine purpose.

Affirmation:

“I will not let the shadows of others dull the light God placed in me. I rise, I love, and I shine—anyway.”

With Grace and Purpose,

Cheryl A.S. Hurley

"Living unapologetically in purpose."

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